Monday, August 8, 2011

Relationships - Important For The Human Family

Relationships are so important to the human family. Happiness, contentment, love and, peace are based on our relationships with others, especially husband and wife.



TAKE YOUR TIME

Marriage is a beautiful arrangement. It is so important as young adults who are thinking and cultivating a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, that we not hide who we are.



TAKE YOUR TIME

Speak the truth in your courtship and let your prospective mate know all about you, your likes and dislikes.



TAKE YOUR TIME

Let them know what you can put up with and what you can't. Share your deepest fears. Let them know what you expect in the relationship. Be honest if you cannot fullfill the wishes of the one you want to marry.



TAKE YOUR TIME

IF SOMEONE SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE, IF THEY TELL YOU WHO THEY ARE...BELIEVE THEM. Another words if someone is honest with you and share themselves truthfully with you, recognize that you can't change them, they are who they are. You have to decide if you can live with those conditions.



TAKE YOUR TIME

The poem to follow only demonstrates how important it is to really make sure, as best as possible, that the one you love is right for you. Don't be ashamed to address area that can be potential problems because, you will spend the rest of your life together so, as you enjoy your potential mate MAKE SURE OF ALL THINGS AND IF YOU ARE NOT SURE, IT OKAY TO DECIDE THAT THIS RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FOR YOU.

Work Hard Not To Hide - Who You Are

BE TRUE TO THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE

When we meet someone of the opposite sex and we feel a strong physical attraction,
We say to ourselves, “this is the one who will make my life complete, with much satisfaction.”
We can’t eat, we can’t sleep, our body is responding in ways we have not known,
But all we know is that we must see them, or talk to them in person or by the telephone.

Nothing else is important to you but to make such a person your husband or wife soon,
During your courtship, you have such a glow, it is easy for all to see and know.
You are the happiest person on earth, you feel, but others are wondering if your love is real,
You see the love of your life everyday and night, with never a fight, this must be right.


They look good, smell good, say all the right words to you, you are glad you have them, you heard,
But do you really know the person who has captured your heart? Maybe your heart is blind from the start.
When your mother and or father ask you “Are you sure baby this person is the one?” Pay attention to wisdom, if he/She is not the one, this relationship will not be fun.
A used car can test drive so fine, but to not learn all you can first, you will be so sorry in time.

 
During your courtship, your lover tells you, I will be all that you want in our marital relationship.
You are finally married, husband and wife, how sad it is that on your honeymoon, you see that all is not right.
You look to your woman to cook a home cooked meal for you, she said, “ I don’t cook, I thought you knew.”
She looks to her man to go to work to bring home the money; he laughs and says, “Oh that’s funny.”


Your man or woman can be colorful, suave, luscious and fine, but at the end of the day you realize that you may have been blind,
You have many physical, emotional wounds that you cannot hide, as you look in the mirror, the happy person you were, now you cry.
So for those of you looking for that special person, take your time,
Rushing, thinking you have found Mr./Mrs. right, you could be committing a crime. (to yourself).



By Chester Randolph Sr
August 8, 2011