Showing posts with label Relationship Bullies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationship Bullies. Show all posts

Monday, August 8, 2011

Relationships - Important For The Human Family

Relationships are so important to the human family. Happiness, contentment, love and, peace are based on our relationships with others, especially husband and wife.



TAKE YOUR TIME

Marriage is a beautiful arrangement. It is so important as young adults who are thinking and cultivating a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, that we not hide who we are.



TAKE YOUR TIME

Speak the truth in your courtship and let your prospective mate know all about you, your likes and dislikes.



TAKE YOUR TIME

Let them know what you can put up with and what you can't. Share your deepest fears. Let them know what you expect in the relationship. Be honest if you cannot fullfill the wishes of the one you want to marry.



TAKE YOUR TIME

IF SOMEONE SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE, IF THEY TELL YOU WHO THEY ARE...BELIEVE THEM. Another words if someone is honest with you and share themselves truthfully with you, recognize that you can't change them, they are who they are. You have to decide if you can live with those conditions.



TAKE YOUR TIME

The poem to follow only demonstrates how important it is to really make sure, as best as possible, that the one you love is right for you. Don't be ashamed to address area that can be potential problems because, you will spend the rest of your life together so, as you enjoy your potential mate MAKE SURE OF ALL THINGS AND IF YOU ARE NOT SURE, IT OKAY TO DECIDE THAT THIS RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FOR YOU.

Friday, July 22, 2011

DIFFERENT TYPES OF BULLIES!



THE POEM EXPRESS MY FEELINGS ABOUT BULLYING, SINCE I WAS AFFECTED AS A CHILD BY BULLIES.

The bully’s formative years are marred by poor parental example or by outright neglect. Many bullies come from homes where the parents are cold or uninvolved or have, in effect, taught their children to use rage and violence to handle problems. Children raised in such an environment may not see their own verbal attacks and physical aggression as bullying; they may even think that their behavior is normal and acceptable.

IN WHATEVER CASE THE BULLY'S FORMATIVE YEARS WERE, BULLYING SHOULD BE A SERIOUS CRIME.


Physical Bullies: These are the easiest to identify. They act out their anger by hitting, shoving, or kicking their chosen target—or by damaging their victim’s property.

Verbal Bullies: They use words to hurt and humiliate their target, through either name-calling, insults, or persistent, harsh teasing.

Relationship Bullies: They spread nasty rumors about their target. This behavior is predominantly adopted by female bullies.

Reactive Victims: These are victims of bullying who turn into bullies themselves. Of course, their having been victims of bullying does not excuse their conduct; it only helps to explain it.

          Source: Take Action Against Bullying, by Gesele Lajoie, Alyson McLellan, and Cindi Seddon