The Reason For This Poem

Lesley Jane Nonkin says that virginity to many youths is "like baby teeth" something you lose before graduation.

One reason many today are looking to sex is because they want to be loved by someone and, they want to give love.

Sadly, so many families lead busy lives with little, or no time for each other. The results? Children and some adults, will see sexual activity as the ultimate step toward intimacy, the proof of being loved and valued.

This poem shows what youths are doing, with sad consequences.

The Reality About Sex - It's Not As Many Think

The Reality About Sex

Many have tried to enjoy sex because they feel it is their right,

Something they can do anytime of the day or night.

Others feel that they can have sex because it feels good,

Yet, the results of having sex leaves so many mentally misunderstood.

So many, love the way that sex feels they cannot stop,

Even when knowing the danger they continue to hop.

With no regard for the end result of engaging in different sex acts,

Many, so many go through life with sexual urges, looking for someone that will make contact.

One of the Kardashian sisters was talked into having sex as a teenager to please the man,

How sad for her, she quickly realized that he and any others were just a scam.

Many regret losing their virginity at a young age,

Because they have been robbed and used, they go through life not understanding, their rage.

How sad it is when someone takes your virginity away from you,

They don’t care that you now may look like a fool.

You go back to the boyfriend and say, “I just had your baby, and it’s a boy.”

Your boyfriend doesn’t care because he only used you as a toy.

Girls and boys who are very young don’t know their bodies, so they get talked into having sex,

Sometimes they have a child or two and realize that now their life is one big wreck.

You look at the children you have to raise alone and, you realize that what you did was not right,

You alone must bring up the children right but, now it’s a struggle, it’s a fight.

Sex was not meant to be engaged in irresponsibly

Whether you realize it or not, engaging in sex when you are not ready, there is a high fee

Sometimes it comes in the form of disease

Oh! How you wish you could turn back the hands of time, PLEASE!

But how do persons feel who stay a virgin until they marry?

They feel like the most expensive diamond in the world, pure, beautiful and rare,

The man or woman who acquires such a virgin, holds them and cherish them with delicate care.

Even if you are not a virgin, but you feel that sex is sacred for husband and wife then, you are a diamond, YES EXTRAORDINAIRE.